In a quote from a TV show, it goes like this: “Some people you overlook for a lifetime, some you glance at but influence your whole life, some joyfully care for you but get neglected by you, some give you fleeting happiness but receive your indifference, some wishful thinking for years but rejected for years, some casual expressions become eternal memories. That’s life.”
Love is indeed strange. In relationships, there are devoted women, and there are also devoted men.
When a woman decides on a man, she will give him her best and also give some things to herself.
When a man gives things to a woman, she should understand his intentions. If she loves him, she shouldn’t disregard his deep affection.
Giving You All His Money
In a movie long ago, there was a story about a man deeply in love with a woman. Despite still being a student, he was willing to give all his money to her out of love.
After they graduated, the woman wanted to study abroad, but her family couldn’t afford it. It was the man who funded her.
To support her studies abroad, the man chose to work after graduation, even though he had been accepted into a master’s program. He sacrificed for her.
The woman was grateful, thinking the man was good to her and used his money for her education.
After her studies, instead of marrying the man, the woman broke up with him. In a downpour, he chased after her, crying, and said, “I have chosen you for life.”
When a man gives all his money, it means he has bet everything on her. But in the end, she made him lose.
Many may say the woman has higher standards now and doesn’t want an ordinary life with the man. But when a man invests all his money in a woman’s education, and she fails to appreciate it, her future may not be bright.
Because someone has considered her a lifelong companion, but she fails to cherish or even notice it.
Giving All His Care to the Woman
In a TV drama, “Temptation to Go Home,” the female lead faced many challenges in love.
But then, she met a man who truly loved her. He showered her with all his care.
Despite being a divorced mother, the man saw her as attractive and kind. Others pursued him, but he devoted all his care to her, not anyone else.
Regardless of a woman’s excellence, when a man gives all his care, she must understand he has chosen her.
In this world, no one is kind to you for no reason. If a man doesn’t love a woman, he won’t waste time on her.
Revealing His Past to the Woman
A man willing to spend his life with a woman will share his past with her.
Men are usually rational in relationships and know secrets don’t stay hidden. Revealing his past is a sign of responsibility when committing to a woman.
In many cases, people see men and women spend their lives together not because men have no past, but because they are open about it.
Sharing His Family Situation with the Woman
If a man plans to marry a woman, she will eventually become part of his family.
If a man hasn’t chosen a woman for a lifetime, he may not introduce her to his family. But if he wants to marry her, he must inform her about his family.
In a show, a guest shared her relationship troubles, mentioning her boyfriend never talked about his family after three years together. The experts suggested she should break up.
A man who hides his family situation after three years is unlikely to marry the woman. He might still be waiting for the right person. Once found, the woman may be left behind.
Giving the Woman Recognition
When a man chooses a woman, he will give her recognition.
Some couples have been together for a long time, yet the relationship remains undisclosed.
A friend once told me, “My boyfriend and I have a pair of rings, but he always takes his off when going out.”
He does this to hide the fact that he has a girlfriend. If others know about her, he might miss out on other opportunities.
A man who gives recognition to a woman wouldn’t hide her. If he introduces her to friends and family, she should feel fortunate.
If a man keeps a woman hidden, she should be cautious; he may not intend to spend his life with her.
Ultimately, women remember men who make them cry, while men remember women who make them laugh. As a woman, marrying a man who deeply loves you will bring happiness. If you marry someone you love but who doesn’t love you back, your position in the marriage may be compromised.