In real life, what does it mean for a woman to deeply love a man?

Different people may have different answers to this question.

Making trouble is a form of dependence, politeness is a form of strangeness. In fact, from this simple sentence, we can clearly understand.

When a woman deeply loves a man, she will have expectations of him and will depend on him constantly. If a woman becomes exceptionally indifferent in love, it means she does not love the man enough. Many men do not realize this and think that the woman’s unreasonable behavior is just tormenting them endlessly.

But only when a woman doesn’t love you, she will treat you with extreme indifference.

My husband and I have been married for seven years. They say after the seven-year itch, marriage will be a new beginning, but I feel like these seven years have been extremely painful for me.

Back then when I was with him, he had nothing, just a poor guy. But I thought he was ambitious, patient, honest, reliable, so I chose him without hesitation.

My parents were strongly against this marriage, and back then, I had a big conflict with them to be able to marry him. Even when I gave birth to our child, my parents couldn’t attend. I felt it was quite regrettable for me.

I originally thought my marriage would be extremely happy after getting married.

But after getting married, I realized that all of this was just my own sentiment.

After having a child, he didn’t care about me at all. All the trivial matters in the family needed to be taken care of by me alone.

Back then, for the sake of the child, I endured it. I knew it was my own choice, so I had to grit my teeth and endure.

I originally thought all I did could change him, but after seven years, I realized that habits are hard to change.

After marriage, he also revealed his other side.

He was not as gentle and considerate as I imagined, and he did not take on the responsibilities a man should in marriage.

Now looking back, I actually feel quite unfilial.

As the child grows up, I have no expectations for this marriage anymore.

I used to always check his phone, but now even if he doesn’t come home all day, I feel indifferent.

My only hope now is for the child to grow up healthy. As long as I see him succeed, that will be my greatest comfort.

Between me and my husband, we have become the most familiar strangers now, and I don’t care about him at all.

After listening to such a story, I wonder what everyone’s thoughts are.

But in marriage, everyone will have different troubles. As the saying goes, every family has its own challenges.

Marrying a good man may bring you a lifetime of happiness, but if you meet the wrong person, it will only lead to endless suffering in the end.

For a woman, if she truly loves a man, she will show exceptional care for him.

Roland once said, “Love should not be forced, but responsibility is necessary in marriage.”

But if a woman shows indifference towards you and implements these three “no” principles in marriage, it’s not because she deeply loves you, but because her heart is as ashes.

Neglect

In the beginning of a relationship, many women are often worried about their partner.

Constantly calling, messaging, checking locations, it may seem like care, but to men, it becomes pressure. Over time, men start to resent it, and women become more unreasonable.

This behavior will eventually lead to conflicts and disappointments. Disappointment doesn’t come overnight. When a woman completely neglects you, it shows her lack of concern, care, and thoughtfulness towards you.

Even if you’re never home, it doesn’t affect her.

Indifference

When a woman changes from high heels to flats for you, it shows her love for you. She sacrifices time with friends to be at home cooking and cleaning for you, not out of obligation, but out of love.

The deeper the love, the more care she shows. When you’re out, she worries about your meals. When you work late, she worries about your health.

Women aren’t afraid of hardships. When she truly loves you, even if you have nothing, she will follow you without hesitation.

In a relationship, women just want a man’s love and care. If you can’t even do that, it will only disappoint her in the end.

As you become more distant and disdainful towards her, her heart will gradually turn cold.

Until one day, she will completely disappear from your world.

Not Exposing Lies

Some men find their wives nagging, so they come up with lies every time they come home. But every woman is sharp; she can tell if you’re deceiving her. When a woman doesn’t expose your lies, it shows her heart is as ashes towards you because she doesn’t care about the right or wrong between you anymore.

When a woman can calmly face your lies, it means you are no longer important to her.

Love is not about taking, but giving.

As a man, in marriage, learn to give your wife more care and love.

When a woman is willing to follow you unconditionally, to entrust her life to you, it shows her trust in you. So, please, do not let her down.