A long time ago, there was an advertisement with the following line:

“Some encounters are like disasters, while others are romantic.”

In life, some people who come close to you may bring about a beautiful relationship, leading to a happy ending.

But some individuals who approach you may cause inconvenience and eventually ruin your reputation.

For relationships that bring us happiness, we should cherish them and hold onto that happiness.

However, for relationships that can disrupt our lives, we should steer clear of them to avoid endless troubles.

In this world, although women tend to be more emotional in handling relationships, they are rational when rejecting someone.

On the other hand, men are usually rational in dealing with emotions but can become emotional and indecisive when rejecting someone.

As people reach middle age, whether man or woman, if someone of the opposite sex approaches you, don’t take it too seriously as a disaster.

Approaching You for Promotion

Many people have achieved success by the time they reach middle age, attracting a lot of attention from others.

Mr. Smith is one such example. At over 40 years old, he has a successful business and manages his company well.

During summer this year, Mr. Smith hired a group of new employees, mostly young and attractive women, due to job requirements.

Most of these new employees focused on their work, except for one woman.

One woman performed well at work but always sought out Mr. Smith after work, bringing him gifts and sweet words.

As Mr. Smith’s wife was distant, seeing a beautiful and gentle woman like her, he developed affection and they started a secretive relationship.

To Mr. Smith, it was just a game, perhaps ending in a few days. However, the woman believed Mr. Smith could help her.

When it was time for the evaluation after three months, Mr. Smith noticed that although the woman’s work was satisfactory in several aspects, it was not outstanding.

The woman insisted on being rated as outstanding by Mr. Smith to secure a promotion.

Helpless, Mr. Smith reluctantly rated her as outstanding, which was eventually exposed by others in the company.

This incident escalated to the court, and the company’s affairs took a downturn.

When a person reaches middle age and achieves some success, many individuals may approach them for various reasons.

Perhaps you initially agreed to be with them for personal gain, but every action has consequences. If you abuse your power to help them, you may end up harming yourself.

If someone approaches you for personal gain, be cautious. They might bring disaster upon you.

Approaching You to Destroy Your Family

Mr. Liu had a past love during his youth, but they separated due to work reasons.

This relationship had always been on Mr. Liu’s mind. This year, he encountered his ex-girlfriend.

Despite having a family and children, seeing his ex-girlfriend again stirred up emotions in Mr. Liu.

She was his first love and held a significant place in his heart. Not being together back then was a regret for Mr. Liu.

When his child mentioned the ex-girlfriend and she approached him, Mr. Liu was surprised when she actively came closer to him.

Thinking his ex-girlfriend was seeking him out, without his wife’s knowledge, he rekindled the relationship.

As they spent time together, Mr. Liu felt like he was back in his youth, feeling happy and content.

However, his ex-girlfriend later showed his intimate photos to his wife, leading to their divorce.

Surprisingly, after the divorce, his ex-girlfriend vanished, seeking revenge for their past breakup.

When married, one should not entertain thoughts of past loves. What’s done is done. Do not hurt those around you.

Someone who rekindles a past relationship with you might not love you but seek to destroy your family.

When someone approaches you in this manner, be cautious and don’t let them succeed.

Being Close to You for Ambiguity

Ms. Wang, in her forties and divorced, met someone at work who showed her care and concern.

They spent time together daily, and many stopped pursuing Ms. Wang, assuming she was with this person.

However, despite their closeness, the person never bought her anything or expressed their feelings.

One day, Ms. Wang checked the person’s phone and found ambiguous messages with many other women.

When someone in middle age engages in ambiguous relationships with you, it’s best to distance yourself. Young people may handle such situations, but middle-aged individuals cannot afford to lose.

Therefore, if someone approaches you for ambiguity, you can simply cut ties.

As people reach middle age, some individuals may approach you. Stay alert, even if you love them. If they bring disaster instead of happiness, reject them.

One decision in relationships can lead to losing a lot, even suffering, as fate can change in an instant.