Women have always been the vulnerable ones in marriage. Emotionally, they are more likely to get deeply involved, especially after having children. Their reluctance to let go of their children makes them continually tolerate their husbands’ mistakes, even when they cross the line. They might choose to turn a blind eye for the sake of the children.
Leila is such a woman. Despite knowing that her husband not only emotionally betrayed her but also cheated on her physically, she chose to turn a blind eye to it all to give her child a complete family.
She thought, as long as the child is happy, nothing else matters. No matter how tough it gets, seeing her child’s smile makes it all worthwhile.
Initially, her husband thought he was foolproof, able to maintain both a stable family life and an exciting affair. But as time passed, he began to feel that something was amiss.
Leila, who used to care for him, now seemed indifferent. She wouldn’t even put his clothes in the washer anymore. Despite feeling uneasy, he initially enjoyed the newfound freedom, which created more opportunities for him and his lover to be together.
After experiencing 2 years of emotional distance, they had become strangers. Although Leila and her husband still lived under the same roof, she was no longer the same person.
Unlike his lover who demanded a divorce to marry him, which was impossible for him, Leila’s husband decided to end the affair and return to his family.
The initial passionate love in a relationship fades with time. Some men easily get tired of mundane married life, leading them to betray their marriage due to a lack of responsibility towards their families.
For both wives and mistresses, after the initial excitement fades, the sense of responsibility and the years spent with their wives come to mind.
Understanding these dynamics, instead of crying and arguing like a shrew, it’s better to love oneself.
Engage in activities you enjoy, buy things that bring you joy. Center everything around your happiness, and life will naturally improve.
When a person suddenly changes their life trajectory, it inevitably piques a man’s curiosity.
The wife’s internal and external transformation will reveal a different side of her, making the husband rediscover the charming person he once ignored, making the return to the family a natural choice.
Marriage is a ticket to observe human nature under a microscope, but the price is high.
After paying such a high price, cherish it and don’t let a moment of impulse shatter it irreparably!