Byron once said, “The joys and pains of love are intertwined.”

When it comes to love, each of us has different choices. Some people think that dating someone older is better because they are more mature and can take care of them better. Others believe that dating someone younger is more exciting, but no matter what you choose, you should choose someone who truly loves you.

Age is not a problem as long as two people can connect with each other. Even if there are many difficulties, they can be overcome.

As a 30-year-old man, many people think he is mature, charming, and responsible, but when a man reaches a certain age, he has a different perspective on life.

He is more able to weigh the pros and cons of love.

There’s a saying that anyone you meet after 25 is already carrying emotional baggage. This saying is not entirely false.

When a man reaches a certain age, he becomes more mature and stable, no longer as childish and naive as before. This is why they are more cautious in love.

So, can a 30-year-old man truly love you? These three men spoke the truth.

32-year-old Mr. Wang: Life is Greater than Love

When I was young, I pursued love with passion, but after reaching a certain age, I realized that life’s hardships can be overwhelming.

After work, I just want to relax and not be troubled by emotional pain.

Now that I’m married, I want stability. Besides love, I also bear a lot of work pressure as the pillar of the family, so my responsibilities are increasing. I have two kids to raise, and all I hope for is a peaceful life. If two people can’t work together towards a common goal, life will be exhausting.

My wife often complains that I’m not romantic and don’t know how to be intimate, but I think men’s hardships are often underestimated. Now that I’ve reached a certain age, I think life is greater than love. Only when you’ve solved the problems of living can you gain happiness.

37-year-old Mr. Zhang: A Man’s Success Depends on a Woman

My wife and I have been married for 17 years. I remember when we first got together, I was penniless, and her parents opposed our relationship. But she was willing to fight with her parents to be with me. Back then, she would follow me no matter what, and I vowed to make her happy.

For her, I worked hard to give her a better life. Now, after 17 years of marriage, our relationship has only gotten better. We have a son and a daughter, and I’m grateful for her companionship and care. She’s become an indispensable part of my life, and I can’t leave her.

36-year-old Mr. Zhou: Remarriage Taught Me What Love Is

Rollo once said, “We don’t have to force love, but we must take responsibility for marriage.”

Marriage is a choice for me. When I was young, I didn’t know better and got married impulsively. But after five years, I realized the woman didn’t truly love me.

I chose to sacrifice for the sake of our child, but in the end, I was betrayed.

Now that we’ve been divorced for three years, I was hesitant to start a new relationship. But then I met her, and I finally understood what love is. Love is the pursuit of two people, and I used to sacrifice my own interests to fulfill the other person’s desires. But in the end, I got hurt.

After remarriage, this woman’s dedication to me made me understand what true love is. She treats my kids like her own, and I feel she’s a blessing from heaven. I must protect her well.

People say that 30-year-old men are not worth loving, but I think that when a man truly loves you, he’s willing to sacrifice everything for you.

Shakespeare once said, “The path of true love is not smooth.”

If you think the other person doesn’t love you enough, it might be because you haven’t given enough. In love, everyone is equal. Good love is a mutual pursuit, not a one-way sacrifice. If you want the other person to love you more, you must learn to let them feel your love.

No matter what stage a man is in, as long as he meets the right person, meets the woman who understands and respects him, he will become exceptionally gentle and romantic.

True love cannot be hidden. When a man truly loves you, he’s willing to sacrifice everything for you without conditions. A 30-year-old man is more mature and rational in the face of life, and their love is rational.

If you want to enter their heart, you must learn to give them more care and understanding. Only then will they cherish you deeply and can’t leave you.