In the novel “Dear Ones,” Gu Xiaoling is a typical gold digger who only seeks a wealthy partner.

It’s understandable for young girls to desire material things, but if you have expectations for your partner, you should also possess corresponding advantages. Otherwise, relying solely on beauty won’t get you far.

Gu Xiaoling’s love life has never been smooth. Even older men find her lacking in youthful charm.

Just when Gu Xiaoling is about to give up on marrying a wealthy man, He Mu appears, showing his sincerity and providing evidence of his identity to Gu Xiaoling.

Unlike the wealthy men she met before, who were just playing around, He Mu is ready for a wedding and meticulously plans every detail of their life after marriage.

As Gu Xiaoling is on the brink of marrying a wealthy man, she suddenly hesitates.

This hesitation arises when her best friend and sister needs 5 million yuan for a business venture. When she mentions this to He Mu, he asks if she has read the prenuptial agreement he provided.

He Mu clearly states in the agreement that he has no financial obligations to Gu Xiaoling before marriage. It also outlines when she might gain control over a certain amount of property after a certain period and having children.

Signing a prenuptial agreement for the wealthy is a form of financial security to avoid unnecessary disputes.

However, Gu Xiaoling begins to question her choices. She asks Lei Haowen, who has always pursued her despite not being wealthy, if he would lend her 5 million yuan if he had it.

Lei Haowen replies, “Of course, I would lend it.” Gu Xiaoling questions, “What if I use it for something illegal?”

Lei Haowen indulgently responds, “Your mind, what else can you do besides buying bags and clothes?”

While Lei Haowen’s words may not be reliable, a man’s attitude towards spending on a woman often reflects his attitude towards love.

Marrying He Mu would provide Gu Xiaoling with a life of comfort. But following He Mu’s meticulously detailed prenuptial agreement with 347 clauses might not lead to true happiness.

Although He Mu eventually gives Gu Xiaoling the 5 million yuan, genuine happiness between them remains uncertain. Gu Xiaoling desires love in addition to material wealth.

Women are not foolish and understand the harsh realities of life. Marrying for love does not guarantee happiness and fulfillment.

In the series “Thirty But Seventeen,” Mrs. Chen, who spends over a million on custom diamond jewelry, realizes that wealth does not equate to happiness. Her husband starts neglecting her after their financial success, despite their past struggles together.

Mrs. Chen, who once endured hardships and poverty, simply wanted a better life. However, her desires led to disappointment.

Women’s youth is fleeting. Wang Man Ni has witnessed many ups and downs and seeks a man who can fulfill her emotionally and financially.

However, balancing love and wealth is challenging. Life does not always offer the perfect endings depicted in dramas; real life is more complicated.

Gu Xiaoling in “Dear Ones” understands the challenges of marrying someone like He Mu. She confides in Lei Haowen because she can be herself around him.

She knows that starting from scratch with Lei Haowen would be exhausting. So, how can one achieve true happiness?

More women are taking control of their lives rather than relying solely on love.

In a reality show, Yang Chaoyue is asked if she would give up a role for a relationship. She firmly responds that good job opportunities are rare, but boyfriends are replaceable.

When asked about dating a wealthy man, Yang Chaoyue emphasizes that she would not ask for money as it would damage her pride.

Yang Chaoyue is seen as a sensible artist who knows what she wants and is willing to work for it.

It’s not that she rejects love, but she understands that prioritizing love over financial stability can be risky.

Ultimately, one might lose both love and financial security, making it challenging to regain stability.

In “The First Half of My Life,” Luo Zijun learns the importance of independence and strength after being betrayed by her ex-husband.

With her friend’s help, she rebuilds her life independently. She realizes that true love becomes easier to find when one is self-sufficient.

Many women learn these lessons the hard way, but it’s never too late to understand. Women can choose love or wealth, but independence is key.

In “Dear Ones,” Zhang Zhizhi, after a painful marriage, understands the significance of self-reliance. She refuses a proposal from a successful man because his expectations mirror her past experiences.

Zhang Zhizhi doesn’t need a man for security but seeks confidence within herself.

More women are awakening to the fact that self-earned bread tastes the sweetest. Independence is crucial, and when you control your life, love will naturally follow.

Even without love, one can still live freely. Love enhances life but isn’t a necessity.

Having love is great, but if it’s absent, it’s better to create your own light than wait for someone else to illuminate your path.