My female friend, Sarah, wasn’t very into her boyfriend at first. He was attentive and sincere, which eventually won her over, and they started dating.
As time passed, their feelings naturally faded. Sarah didn’t think much of it, considering it normal for the honeymoon phase to end.
Unexpectedly, after two years together, her boyfriend broke up with her, saying he didn’t want to be with her.
- Sarah was devastated and couldn’t accept the reality. She kept asking if she had done something wrong, but her boyfriend remained silent.
After that, her boyfriend disappeared from her life. She tried to come to terms with it but couldn’t understand. She called him repeatedly, visited his workplace, seeking reasons for his departure, but received no answers. He simply said he no longer wanted to continue the relationship.
- When someone initiates a breakup, they often do so casually, leaving the other person struggling to understand and yearning for closure.
When you ask why, you might prefer to hear that they fell in love with someone else. But when they provide no reason at all, you’ll continue to doubt and blame yourself.
- The truth about love is that when a man who once loved you stops loving you, it’s hard to accept. But no matter how many questions you have, you don’t need to keep asking him why.
Just as when you love someone who doesn’t love you back, you don’t need to ask why he stopped loving you.
A person who truly loves you will continue to do so. If they stop, it means their love wasn’t strong enough, and they can leave at any time.
A man may have loved you deeply in the past and done many things for you, but if he no longer loves you, it means he has moved on and doesn’t want to continue the relationship.
- If he wants to leave, he doesn’t need a reason. But for someone who doesn’t want to be with you, anything can be a reason or no reason at all.
Ultimately, if he doesn’t want to love you anymore, it’s because he doesn’t see you in his future.
If someone is determined to leave, don’t seek answers. Let them go without disturbance or questioning. Your inquiries are meaningless, and your efforts to keep them are unnecessary.
In this journey of life, you don’t have to force anyone to stay by your side. Let go of those who choose to leave, cherish those who are willing to be with you.
You may not always get the love you desire, but strive to live without regrets in everything you do.