Marriage is not always as great as people imagine, but it’s not always as bad as they think either.

Marriage has its ups and downs, making it easy for some to lose control and cross the line.

Sometimes, those in marriages envy the unmarried, thinking they lead happier lives without being tied down.

This envy can lead some to betray their marriage, unable to resist the temptation.

People crave freedom, believing they can pursue love and remarriage freely, even seeking others outside their marriage.

As a poem goes: 
“Life is precious, love is pricier, 
If it’s for the sake of freedom, both can be sacrificed.”

But pursuing freedom in a marriage by being with someone else, especially someone already married, never ends well.

Sometimes, harsh truths reveal that being stubborn is not a wise choice.

Getting married doesn’t always mean a happy ending.

In TV dramas, the male lead’s actions lead to the family falling apart.

After betraying the marriage and choosing the lover, the male lead idealizes the lover, believing her to be understanding and kind.

However, reality sets in when they are together, conflicts arise, revealing the truth behind the fantasy.

The male lead and the lover plan a trip for their two children. However, the lover shows favoritism, sending her child abroad while leaving the male lead’s child behind.

Selfishness often clouds judgment, making the lover appear better than they are. But in marriage, the truth surfaces, sometimes showing that the ex-spouse was better.

Smart individuals understand that in troubled marriages, the focus should be on saving the relationship, not ending it.

Proven by experience, those who breeze through their first marriage tend to have a happy life ahead. Those who rush into divorce without trying to salvage the marriage may find themselves in the same unhappy situation in subsequent marriages.

Hence, sometimes the first marriage is the best. Holding onto it is crucial for a better future.

It’s essential to manage one’s marriage well and avoid casual affairs.

Betraying your marriage for a fling may seem like a victory, but it often leads to losing both your spouse and your lover, resulting in a tragic outcome.

Remember: Never envy the ex-spouse who’s with their lover. Such individuals seldom find true happiness.

Initially, things may seem perfect, but extramarital affairs rarely end well, leaving behind a trail of regret and disappointment.

It’s not always love that drives one to be with someone, but rather an idealized perception that clouds judgment.

People often differentiate between their lover and spouse.

Most individuals can separate their lover from their spouse. They may have a fling but won’t abandon their partner.

While some may indulge with a lover, their heart remains with their spouse.

Women, in particular, differentiate clearly between their husband and lover, being cautious not to spend their husband’s money recklessly.

Sometimes, being stubborn in pursuing an affair with a lover leads to disappointment, realizing that the effort was in vain.

Holding onto your true love is crucial. Sacrificing it for a mere fling not only harms yourself but your family, leading to regret in the end.

Under pressure, some seek excitement outside their marriage.

When stressed, people often seek solace outside their marriage.

Feeling bored at home, they look for thrills elsewhere.

Seeking excitement outside signifies a lack of emotional attachment, preventing them from committing to their partner.

Encountering a married individual and developing feelings for them can lead to deception if emotions cloud judgment.

Wise individuals understand the importance of treating their spouse well and staying loyal. This contributes to a healthy and happy family life.

While a lover may seem caring, it’s often the spouse who stands by you when trouble arises.

Extramarital affairs rarely involve true love and often end in disappointment. Being stubborn in such pursuits leads to a harsh reality check, resulting in regrets and ruin.

There’s no remedy for regret. Abandoning your spouse and family for a fleeting romance will only leave you empty-handed in the end.