Finding a suitable partner is really tough.

I know a friend, 32 years old, good-looking, graduate of a prestigious university, from a well-off family, and with a stable job.

Before the age of 28, she didn’t really focus on finding a partner. She didn’t want to enter into a relationship too early and wanted to enjoy her single life first. During those years, she studied, traveled, and had a great time.

It was after her 28th birthday that she started thinking it was time to date and settle down, as she saw people around her getting married.

She always thought that with her qualifications, finding a partner would not be difficult. However, several years passed, and she was still single. She hadn’t even met anyone she really liked, let alone fallen deeply in love.

Many people always think there’s no rush to find a partner. But high-quality partners have always been scarce resources, sought after by everyone. If you want to find a good partner, you really should do it sooner rather than later.

The earlier you start looking, the more choices you’ll have.

Love really knows no age, as long as there’s love, age difference doesn’t matter.

However, in real life, most couples who choose to be together are usually close in age, or at least not too far apart.

After all, when people are close in age, they have similar life experiences and exposure to things, making it easier for them to relate to each other and not feel so tired in the relationship.

And for people of similar age and experiences, there really aren’t that many in our surroundings.

In our twenties, if we don’t try to find someone suitable from this group, others will. Eventually, if someone else gets chosen first, we might not have any chance at all.

Later on, as we get older and want to settle down, we’ll find that due to our social circle, there aren’t many opposite-sex options available. This situation may not change for years to come.

When we are younger, we can invest more in love.

People become wiser with age, especially when it comes to love. As we get older and used to being alone, we may find it hard to adapt to being with someone else or to love as passionately as before.

When we’re older, we tend to weigh others and be weighed by others without even realizing it.

Conversely, if we find someone when our hearts are still passionate, we are more likely to be willing to love them sincerely after getting to know them. We will experience pure love together and be more likely to impulsively enter into marriage. The wonderful love we have will also become a support in our future life together.

Genuine love is more likely to happen at a younger age. It’s hard for anyone to be that serious as they get older.

Find each other early and strive together for a better future.

Some people think that in their twenties, they should enjoy being single as there’s still a long road ahead before marriage.

However, the best years, when we are free and independent, are indeed great, but at this bright age, loving someone and creating memories together can be even more delightful.

It’s not just about witnessing the best times in someone’s life or showing them our most beautiful selves, but also about encouraging each other, helping each other find goals, and making life easier together.

One person’s strength is limited, but when two people are together, everything is shared and faced together, offering advice and making life much easier.

Moreover, when we are alone, we tend to drift aimlessly and not think too much about the future, let alone take responsibility for it.

It’s different when there are two people. Unconsciously, we start to include each other in our future plans, wanting to become better for each other and live a better life.

It’s better to find a partner sooner, but not too early to the point of neglecting our studies or when we are not mature enough.

At least when in college, around 25 years old, when we have gained a certain level of maturity and understanding of the world, we should consider finding a partner.

Honestly, we don’t have to think that we must earn a certain amount of money before dating. We can afford to wait, but high-quality partners may not wait for us.

Don’t overthink it. A good partner will not only not hold us back but will also reduce half of our life’s hardships.

Otherwise, if we miss that age, it will be really hard to find a satisfactory partner in the future.

True love has always been rare, and the older we get, the more so.