Blind dates are a popular way to find a partner these days. Many people, especially men, end up single because they are too busy with work and don’t have the chance to meet more people of the opposite sex. As they age, parents worry they won’t find a spouse, so they arrange blind dates and even hire matchmakers to help.

Although blind dates are a quick way to find a partner, there are often many flaws, leading to unhappy marriages. Most people go on blind dates with the intention of getting married quickly. But after getting married, they realize many differences and end up divorcing.

Nowadays, both men and women have high expectations for marriage partners. Some would rather stay single than settle. Women, especially, face pressure from those around them and develop a sense of vanity. They seek partners not only based on looks and education but also financial stability.

As more women around them get married and praise their partners, some women start to compare and seek someone even better. This mindset contributes to many older women remaining single.

Linda, a highly educated woman in her town, works in an important department but prefers to stay single rather than settle for less. She rejects every matchmaking suggestion, leading to conflicts with her family.

Recently, she agreed to meet a handsome, wealthy man from town on a blind date. When he mentioned his $200,000 annual salary, Linda angrily dismissed him, saying money couldn’t buy her hand in marriage.

The man, taken aback, retorted that she was an old woman who hadn’t married yet and had no right to be picky. He mentioned his business income and compared her education level to other women’s. He then left, leaving Linda crying for the first time from such harsh words.

Since then, Linda has become more polite on dates, realizing the importance of understanding and being understood in relationships.

Marriage should be about finding a true partner, not a competition. Finding happiness requires self-awareness and understanding what you truly want, rather than comparing yourself to others.

Before seeking a partner, one must first understand themselves and live a fulfilling life alone. Only then can they find a suitable partner and build a happy marriage.