There is a saying: “Talking about money hurts relationships.” But in this world, many people engage in relationships for money, such as extramarital affairs. Some believe that engaging in an extramarital affair signifies true love because it requires courage to defy societal norms.
However, the true motives behind engaging in an extramarital affair vary from person to person. Most women do it for money rather than love. Many men think that if a woman is already married but falls in love with them, she might leave her spouse for them. However, this often leads to financial loss as the woman disappears with all the money.
In extramarital affairs, women are usually after money rather than genuine emotions. This fact is well known to astute individuals.
A woman who spends your money freely but claims to love you is deceptive. I have a high school classmate who was engaged to a neighbor by her family after graduation. Although she was my high school classmate, she was five years older than me and already an adult.
The engagement was not solely arranged by her family; she had feelings for the neighbor’s child, and they both liked each other, leading to the engagement. However, closer to the wedding, the man changed his mind and fell in love with a married woman.
The man believed the married woman loved him too, despite being married, and he continued to wait for her. She exploited him financially, making him buy her expensive jewelry and insisting on luxurious outings. Despite warnings from others, the man was blind to the reality and abandoned his fiancée for her.
After leaving his fiancée, the woman soon left him when he ran out of money. A woman who spends your money while claiming to love you is untrustworthy because genuine love does not entail exploiting someone financially.
Can a woman who betrays her husband stay faithful to you? A woman who betrays her husband’s trust is unlikely to honor commitments made to a lover. Many assume that if a woman is with them, she must love them. However, some women deceive men solely for financial gain.
Men sometimes abandon their partners for these women, only to realize later that they were deceived. If you fall for a married woman, be aware that she can betray her husband and will likely betray you too. Understand that such women lack genuine emotions and are capable of deceit.
Many women are willing to spend their lover’s money but hesitate to spend their husband’s. There are numerous women who spend their lover’s money but refrain from using their husband’s finances. Some women engage in extramarital affairs for personal gain, exploiting others for money or power.
Money is often the primary motive in such relationships, indicating a lack of genuine emotional attachment.
Some women seek extramarital affairs solely for financial gain. I knew a college acquaintance who had a boyfriend but was involved with many others. One day, we were sketching by the seaside and unexpectedly encountered her boyfriend there.
We were surprised to see him with her since we knew she had a boyfriend. Upon inquiry, she candidly replied, “As long as they pay, anyone is the same.”
In a money-driven society, one never truly knows another’s intentions. Some may drain your finances and leave, forcing you to accept the loss rather than pursue legal action.
Some married women seek other men not for love but as a source of income. Men should steer clear of such women who are unwilling to work hard for their goals and instead rely on others, be it for power or money.
It’s crucial for men to avoid disrupting others’ families and prevent themselves from being deceived. A woman who is already married but seeks a relationship with you is likely after money rather than genuine affection.