In this world, no one can’t survive without another person, especially in marriage. So, why do people get married?

It’s often said that women marry for security, while men marry for sex. But is that really true?

Most of the time, women are emotional, while men are rational.

Women may be forgiving when in love, but are men the same way in marriage? Is it true that a man can’t live without a woman?

Not really. In the eyes of most men, women come after family and material possessions. Women prioritize love, while men prioritize reality. Men adjust their needs based on reality, weigh the pros and cons, and then make decisions.

In a man’s life, there are many emotions to balance, many things that give meaning and fulfillment. These are often more important than a woman, who may come after blood relations and career at times.

Women need to understand that what they assume is not necessarily what men think. After experiencing marriage, what a man wants is not just a wife. Although it may make men fear loss, it’s not the main point.

What men can’t live without are actually these points:

Men Can’t Live Without a Sense of Security

Why do men fear divorce in marriage? It’s mostly about a sense of security. It’s not that he can’t live without the woman, but he’s just not used to living alone after being together for so long.

After men settle into marriage, all they want is stability. With age, they also crave rest and no longer have the drive of youth.

Men also fear going back to being alone, without anyone to greet them, understand them, or care for them.

A home gives a man warmth, and they can’t bear to lose that warmth. They want to stay in that warm and secure home in marriage because it brings them peace of mind.

Men Can’t Live Without Feeling Loved

It’s true that men are fond of the warmth that mothers provide.

When men are young, they also yearn for a mother’s love. As they grow older, they have to be strong as their mother’s attention dwindles.

After getting used to being alone in marriage, men become attached to the warmth and love their wives provide, making them reluctant to leave.

This is why it’s said that couples who have been together for a long time turn into family.

When a man feels loved in marriage, he slowly becomes unable to live without it. He becomes addicted to this feeling, a comforting and lazy sensation that he never wants to leave.

Therefore, men can’t live without feeling loved in marriage.

Men Can’t Live Without Enjoyment

In a marriage, besides love, there’s also family love. A harmonious family brings happiness. Men are accustomed to enjoying the care from their wives and the pure joy brought by their children. They don’t want to leave this comfortable life.

No matter how much a man earns, if he has no one to share it with, what’s the point?

So, men not only enjoy the sweetness and smiles that marriage brings but also the experience of love that comes with it.

Men can’t live without a woman because she gives them irreplaceable happiness and joy. It’s not about a woman’s sex. A disciplined man doesn’t crave the pleasure sex brings but the endless surprises life offers.

Therefore, what men can’t live without in marriage is never women’s sex, but these three things.