Good love is not by chance. Someone who truly likes you won’t make you wait too long, and even if you do wait, they will give you a perfect ending.

I once saw a quote online that struck a chord with me. It said, “Only kids talk about feelings, adults prioritize benefits.”

In today’s era of fast-food love, true love may seem like a luxury to us.

Many people don’t believe in true love, but I want to say this.

Someone who truly loves you won’t make excuses or try to evade responsibilities. It’s only those who don’t love you that will find all sorts of reasons to avoid commitment.

Love and lack of love are obvious. Is someone sincerely into you or just playing around? These signs can tell you.

Attitude Towards Spending on You

Love doesn’t need to be measured in money, but money can represent how much someone cares for you.

Though someone willing to spend on you may not necessarily love you, someone unwilling to do so definitely doesn’t love you enough. If a person hesitates to invest in you, then that kind of love is meaningless to you.

The key is not how much they spend on you but their attitude towards spending on you.

There was a popular test circulating online. It asked, if a man with $10,000 is willing to give you $100, and another man with $100 is willing to give you $99, who would you choose?

Many would choose the latter, but for me, I wouldn’t choose either.

Because the former doesn’t value you, while those who truly commit are rare.

When it comes to relationships, we need to be practical because love is intertwined with life. If a man wholeheartedly invests in you, it means he truly loves you. However, those who can persist day after day are few.

How a person spends money on you reveals their love for you. If a man is willing to spend on a woman, it shows her importance to him. Similarly, if a woman is willing to spend on a man, it demonstrates her unconditional dedication.

Some say relationships should be split equally, while others believe men should take the lead in spending. I think as long as both are happy and content together, any method works.

The crucial point is to observe how people choose between money and emotions. If you prioritize money over emotions, your investment in the relationship will also lack commitment. Choosing material wealth over emotions renders the relationship meaningless, as it’s filled with vested interests. To have a solid relationship, cherish each other, be willing to sacrifice, and avoid forming connections solely based on benefits, as it will end up being more trouble than it’s worth.

Willingness to Include You in Their Life

There’s a saying, “I won’t intervene in your past, but I’ll accompany you in your future.”

Someone who truly loves you will plan their future with you in it.

If someone keeps finding excuses to avoid including you in their life, it shows their love isn’t deep enough.

At the beginning of a relationship, the novelty can lead to impulsive emotions. While intense at first, such fervor can lead to greater sorrow in the end. Therefore, we should handle relationships carefully.

If there’s no genuine consideration for the future, there’s no point in wasting time together.

As Guo Jingming wrote, “If you speak seriously but the listener doesn’t, they’ll take it seriously.” Love can be tricky at times, but true love will bring you more happiness.

Those who don’t include you in their future are merely hoping for luck. Without nurturing your relationship properly, the longer you stay with such a person, the more grievances you’ll endure. It will drain you, leading to increasing fatigue and disappointment in love.

Willingness to Accommodate and Tolerate You

What’s the difference between liking and loving? Loving someone means wanting them to change for you, while liking someone means being willing to change for them.

Compared to liking, love is more profound.

Good love requires mutual effort; one person’s hard work alone cannot lead to a resolution.

Good love isn’t free of arguments and conflicts but involves communication and conflict resolution. It’s about compromise, understanding, and tolerance, which deepen the bond.

In life, we meet all kinds of people. Some teach us lessons, some help us grow. Cherish those who are willing to accompany us throughout, as that’s how life becomes happier and better.