The popular TV series “Just Thirty” has made many people understand the most real truth about marriage.

When we saw Gu Jia being cheated on, we were furious. In real life, many women are like Gu Jia, constantly sacrificing for the family, children, and husband, only to be unappreciated in the end.

This kind of marriage is truly tragic for women. Gu Jia being cheated on made us truly understand.

In a marriage, men desire femininity, not motherliness.

Recently, a friend of mine just finalized her divorce. Over dinner with us after the divorce, she said something that has stuck with me.

She said, “After being married to him for so many years, it was only after the divorce that I realized he didn’t actually need me; he just needed my care for his life.”

My friend had managed their home meticulously for over 20 years. She cooked for him every evening when he returned home, no matter how late. She prepared everything he needed before he went to work each day.

People admired her husband for having such a good wife, but he never acknowledged the praise.

After over 20 years together, with their children now in college, she felt some relief. However, her husband never bothered with anything at home besides work.

She thought her efforts would earn his understanding and affection, but in the end, she was only moving herself.

Ultimately, her husband chose betrayal.

She said that after watching the show “Just Thirty,” she finally realized that women like Gu Jia exist in real life.

Seeing Gu Jia made her reflect on her own life. She chose divorce because she didn’t want to continue compromising in the marriage.

Men like Xu Huanshan, who take things for granted, are not rare in real life.

Why do men end up cheating with women like this? Because just like crying kids get sweets, in family life, men truly desire women who are gentle, not forceful.

Women Who Coquettish Have a Good Life

Napoleon once said, “Women who don’t want to conquer men are not good women.”

Why can some women in real life earn men’s love?

It’s simple—they know how to use men’s weaknesses.

Men have strong desires to conquer. When facing women, they need to feel important, and women who can make them feel protective often win their hearts.

Therefore, women should learn to be coquettish in front of men. You can be your own hero, but in front of men, you should show vulnerability. Only then will men love you more and maybe even can’t do without you.

Femininity is a Passport

Why can some women make men infatuated with them? The fundamental reason lies in their tenderness.

Women are like water and should always use gentleness to conquer hardness.

When facing men, the most important thing to do is to exude femininity. If you act like a man in front of men all the time, how can they love you?

Femininity is a woman’s passport. Such women will make men unable to let go.

In real life, women like Gu Jia may be numerous. They excel in both career and family, making men feel insecure. Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan’s relationship only helped him manage things for a while, giving him the opportunity to cheat.

In front of women like Lin Youyou, Xu Huanshan can find his sense of existence. Such men are not worthy of love, but his infidelity serves as a big reminder for us. In a relationship, what a man truly desires is femininity, not motherliness.

Don’t be too forceful or too understanding in front of men. Only when you learn to depend on him will your life become happier.

Being a woman who is soft on the outside but strong on the inside will make men love you more.