The Ex-Wife’s Selfie on Social Media, Leaving the Man Full of Regret
“When a woman is in love, she’s cured of all illnesses; when she’s heartbroken, she’s plagued by countless problems.”
In relationships, a woman’s IQ drops to zero, not because women are inherently simple-minded, but because they take love extremely seriously.
Before marriage, women take love very seriously and consider men extremely important; after marriage, they prioritize family because they value love so much.
It’s not that some women dedicate their lives to marriage and family, but rather that women do everything for love.
Wang Auntie slept in separate beds with her husband for five years, during which she tried to reach out to her husband, but he remained indifferent.
Eventually, Wang Auntie couldn’t take it anymore and filed for divorce. She posted on social media, “Slept in separate beds for 5 years, finally got divorced.” The selfie she posted looked happy and carefree, without a hint of the sadness and despair she felt during her marriage.
Her ex-husband saw the post and felt guilty and regretful.
However, Wang Auntie had already moved on and was no longer affected by the failed marriage.
Don’t Waste Your Time on Unworthy People
“A gentle woman is a hero’s graveyard, a woman is never a man’s burden.”
This phrase, though from a TV show, speaks to the minds of many men.
Men often prioritize their careers and consider women mere accessories.
Those women who toil away in marriage, only to be betrayed in the end, and those who sacrifice everything, only to be left with nothing.
Don’t think that sacrificing everything for someone will guarantee you everything in return. Sometimes, it’s the opposite.
Smart women know not to waste their time on unworthy people.
After being betrayed, Mai Li said, “You can never wake up someone who’s pretending to sleep.”
People with a heart of stone will never be moved, and one day, your hands will grow cold, while their heart remains icy cold.
Life is short, and when you dedicate your youth and passion to someone, only to lose everything, you’ll suffer a crushing defeat.
So, know when to stop, don’t keep walking down the wrong path, and don’t waste time on unworthy people.
Men Often Realize Too Late
In the TV series “A Love So Beautiful,” an actor said, “I don’t know how many women I’ll like in my lifetime, and I won’t know who I’ll like until the end.”
Men often don’t appreciate women until they lose them, and then they’ll pretend to be pitiful in front of the woman.
Just yesterday, I blocked my boyfriend.
These days, I’ve been calling him, but he’s been dodging me, saying he’s busy and then hanging up.
I’ve had enough of the torment, and since we’re in a long-distance relationship and haven’t seen each other in a year, it’s affected my mood, and everything’s been weighing on my heart.
Yesterday, I suddenly blocked him, and it was a long-overdue decision.
Just yesterday, after I blocked him, he was extremely anxious and even borrowed someone else’s phone to call me.
On the phone, he sounded very desperate and even cried at the end.
At that moment, I didn’t know what to say, but I knew it was all over.
The way he behaved when we video-called yesterday was just the final straw, and I’d given him countless chances, but he never changed.
Emotional experts say:
“When a woman is heartbroken, that’s when the man realizes his mistakes.”
Men are more rational in relationships and are often overly confident, thinking they can fully control a woman and that the woman by their side will always be there.
In reality, everyone has a bottom line, and when you do something that touches someone’s bottom line and they warn you, but you still don’t change, the other person will lose patience.
Those who want to leave will leave quietly, and they won’t argue or blame you; they’ll just leave silently.
However, when the other person wants to leave, the man will realize his mistakes, but it’s often too late, and the damage is already done.
Only When You Improve Yourself Will You Attract More People
In the TV series “My First Half of Life,” the female lead divorces the male lead, but after the divorce, she becomes better and better, and the male lead starts to appreciate her again.
The female lead’s ex-husband initially thought she was lazy and incompetent, but after the divorce, he realized she’d changed, and he started to admire her.
At the same time, even the male friend of the female lead’s best friend started to develop feelings for her, showing that when a woman becomes better and better, she’ll attract more people, including better men.
Those women who fail in marriage will often become better and better, attracting more people.
As long as we’re sincere in our relationships and strive to improve ourselves, we won’t fear being single, and divorced women can still find a good man.
A friend once told me, “Those girls who claim to be ‘hurt’ should realize that he didn’t reject them because he’s too good, but because he’s not good enough!”
Women should remember that if a man doesn’t treat them well in marriage, it’s not because they’re unlucky or married the wrong person, but because the other person lacks vision.
Failure isn’t scary; what’s scary is when a woman fails and loses confidence in life and marriage.
While we’re improving ourselves, we should still keep a childlike heart, believing that tomorrow will be better.