In a relationship, every woman desires a man to love only her.

But in reality, getting a man to love you also comes with conditions.

Every woman needs to learn how to manage a relationship to stay attractive to the man.

Many women think that seizing a man’s weakness will make him submit. However, this mindset is not only foolish but also dangerous.

Maggie and her husband have been married for 2 years. They were inseparable before marriage and had a happy marriage afterward. Maggie is great at creating romance, and her husband adores her for that.

They say women who can act coquettishly are lucky, and it seems true.

After two years of marriage, Maggie hasn’t planned on having children yet because she feels they haven’t had enough time for themselves. However, her husband thinks it’s time to start a family.

They disagree on this matter. Maggie believes having a child will diminish their private time and be tiring, so she’s hesitant.

This disagreement leads to various conflicts between them.

Whenever her husband tries to be intimate, Maggie finds excuses to reject him, causing his interest in her to wane.

The relationship between them is not as strong as before.

Seeing her husband becoming more distant, Maggie feels anxious.

She fears that one day her husband may stop loving her, so she tries to get closer to him. But each time, she makes demands. Initially, her husband tries to fulfill them, but over time, he becomes annoyed.

Although Maggie’s requests are not excessive, her husband feels like it’s a transaction.

He thinks intimacy between spouses should be natural, not a trade. This puts him in a difficult position.

Whenever Maggie asks for something, she tries to please him in various ways. Initially, he sees it as her being cute, but eventually, he feels pressured by her actions.

He feels Maggie is tormenting him, making him distressed, thinking she’s using this as a threat.

In the second year of marriage, their relationship becomes strained. Her husband, exhausted after work, dreads coming home as he feels powerless in his own house.

Gradually, he feels alienated at home. Every interaction with his wife feels like a transaction, leading to increased pressure on him.

In reality, many women make the same mistake. Some women try to use sex as a tool to control men, thinking men should obey them to be intimate. Initially, the man might comply, but eventually, he will resent you.

For adults, sex and love are closely linked.

In a marital relationship, harmony and mutual consent are crucial to enhance the bond and resolve conflicts.

As the saying goes, “What happens in the bedroom reflects in the relationship.”

When a relationship reaches a certain point, this is bound to happen.

If it turns into a transaction, where does the love fit in?

Women need to understand how to interact correctly with men. Wanting a man to love you is fine, but the approach matters.

Don’t Try to Pressure Men into Compromising

In real life, many women are smart and know how to exploit men’s weaknesses.

Initially, men might agree to your demands, but some men are soft-hearted towards women.

If a woman is too dominant, men will start resenting her.

Women should be flexible like water, gently dealing with men. Avoid exerting excessive pressure, as it will lead to discontent.

Smart women use men’s weaknesses to their advantage, unlike foolish women who impose conditions.

You should make a man willingly love you, not force him to under coercion. Love should not be a form of captivity; otherwise, it loses its meaning.

In a relationship, don’t try to force men to yield by applying pressure. Showing vulnerability in front of men is a woman’s gentlest weapon.