Guo Jingming once said, “The highest realm of love is to endure the mundane years.”
When we were young, we fantasized about this scenario: we two would have our own house, busy with our own careers during the day, and meet up at night, loyal and free, as each other’s lover and life partner.
This beautiful love life, perhaps every person has fantasized about in love. Love is something that can be encountered but not sought, especially for a woman. Good love can melt her icy heart.
Every woman has different emotional needs, but there’s a type of woman, no matter how good you are to her, if you lack this one thing, she’ll eventually leave you.
Jessica is 29 years old and has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for five years. Previously, due to work, they didn’t put their hearts into their relationship. Because of family pressure, they discussed getting married.
Jessica is a career-minded woman, and her only fear is becoming a full-time mom after marriage, staying at home, taking care of the kids, and revolving around her husband.
So before getting married, Jessica made a three-point agreement with her partner, one of which was that she wouldn’t become a full-time mom.
The boy’s parents were already old, and after having kids, they wouldn’t be able to help take care of the grandkids, so the boy thought Jessica’s request was unreasonable. Later, during their negotiation, they couldn’t resolve this issue.
On the eve of their wedding, Jessica suddenly had second thoughts. Faced with Jessica’s behavior, the groom was very confused. After a big fight, the wedding was canceled.
Even though they had been in love for five years, they still couldn’t make it to the end. Many people said Jessica’s decision was impulsive, but only Jessica knew that if her partner couldn’t reach a consensus with her, even if they got married, they wouldn’t be happy.
In real life, we’re all searching for our own happiness. For love, we don’t need to force it, but for marriage, we need to take responsibility. It’s not easy for two people to walk together.
Responsibility in Love
Liang Qichao once said, “One must know the bitterness of taking responsibility to know the joy of fulfilling it.”
Every woman will stake her claims when facing emotions, but not every woman will become a winner. When we face marriage, women are always the ones who love deeply. If a man can’t take responsibility for his emotions, the woman won’t feel secure.
Responsibility is indispensable in love. The most important thing for two people is to support each other. For a woman, a man’s responsibility is the best love.
Responsibility is also the lowest standard for measuring a man. A responsible man will receive respect and understanding from others. A man without responsibility, even if you choose him, will only consume your youth. What does responsibility mean?
It means shouldering and providing a sense of security. When a man knows how to put a woman in his heart, your love will be elevated, and happiness will be achieved through joint efforts. A person’s sense of responsibility is also crucial.
Happiness
Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, “It is the making the most of the time that makes the happiness.”
For a woman, what she wants is not wealth but a man’s sincerity. Why do some men, even without money, make women willing to stay with them? The answer is simple: because these men give them the happiness they want.
Life is already difficult for us, and if a woman can’t even get the basic sense of happiness in love, then this love will be a kind of torture for her. Good love can bring more happiness to a woman, and a woman in a relationship.
What she wants is simply a man’s attitude towards her. We only want to find someone to share a meal with and laugh together. If a woman can’t even feel the basic sense of happiness, then your love will eventually dissipate with time.
People say women’s hearts are hard to fathom, and in real life, it’s indeed so. However, for a woman, what she cares about most is a man’s sense of responsibility.
When a man knows how to cherish her, take care of her emotions, and tolerate her small temper, a woman will follow him wholeheartedly. People say women are realistic.
Actually, it’s not, because when a woman falls in love, she’s willing to sacrifice everything for the other person. Good love is a kind of salvation for a woman, and bad love is a kind of torture.
So, as a man, you need to understand women’s hearts better to make a woman depend on you more. Good love requires joint efforts from both parties. A man’s love for a woman is often reflected in the details, and the more you understand her, the more she’ll love you.