Carson McCallers: “Love is a shared experience between two people.”

Love involves two people, not just one. While one person may pursue the other at the beginning, maintaining the relationship requires effort from both sides for it to flourish.

Stardal said: “Love is a lifelong history for women, but just a short episode for men.”

Men’s love is intense, like a raging flood, quick to come and go. Women’s love is more subtle, like a gentle stream, enduring and constant.

Women may see men as their everything, while men may see women as just a passing phase.

Love is a joint effort. Men may not prioritize love, but that doesn’t mean they don’t value it. Men may treat love as a fleeting moment, but not every relationship will be forgotten.

Men may encounter many women they like, but most will become part of the past, with only one becoming a lifelong partner.

To ensure a man’s everlasting love, it depends not only on the man but also on the woman herself.

If women want men to love them tirelessly, they shouldn’t solely rely on female perspectives but should also be open to using male thinking to enhance their relationships.

Be Direct About Your Desires

“If you want something, just tell me. How am I supposed to know what you want if you don’t say it?”

Lenny and her boyfriend were both sophomores at the same school. One day, they went out together during a break, and Lenny spotted a plush toy in a shop.

Her boyfriend asked, “Do you like this plush toy? If you do, I’ll buy it for you.”

Lenny, without expressing her interest in the toy, suggested they leave. Her boyfriend assumed she didn’t want it and didn’t make the purchase.

Later, Lenny was angry on their way back and even blocked her boyfriend that night.

Her boyfriend couldn’t understand why his girlfriend suddenly blocked him, feeling like it was leading to a breakup.

The next day, Lenny’s roommate explained the situation to her boyfriend. He then realized Lenny was upset about not getting the plush toy.

Women sometimes find it hard to express their desires, which can lead to misunderstandings. It’s crucial to communicate openly to maintain a relaxed relationship.

Address Men’s Mistakes

Recently, a video showed a little boy asking a little girl, “If I did something wrong, you need to tell me. How would I know otherwise?”

The girl responded, “If you did something wrong, don’t you already know? What’s the point of me telling you?”

Misunderstandings often arise when women silently resent men’s mistakes without addressing them.

A friend once told me, “After being with my girlfriend, I’ve admitted to making mistakes numerous times, but I never understand what I did wrong. I need her to tell me.”

When men upset women, it’s essential for women to communicate the issue because men aren’t mind readers. Constantly negating your partner without explanation can lead to frustration.

Love requires effort and understanding, not just mutual tolerance. Even the strongest love can’t withstand constant strain.

Avoid Unnecessary Speculation

Women sometimes get caught up in their thoughts without considering the actual situation.

In relationships, some women might assume the worst when their husbands don’t return home promptly or their boyfriends are slow to reply to messages.

Women’s intuition can be accurate, but it’s best not to jump to conclusions without concrete evidence.

If a woman senses something amiss, she should seek additional information rather than making unfounded assumptions, as it benefits both parties.

Be Honest About Your Feelings

Women often say one thing but mean another.

For instance, when men make mistakes, women may stay silent instead of expressing their discontent. When asked how they feel, they might still say everything is fine.

Gany had been married to her husband for years and was known for her gentle nature, making them appear as a model couple with a harmonious home.

However, they surprisingly decided to divorce last year.

Upon investigation, it was revealed that Gany’s mother-in-law liked soup and her husband always asked Gany to serve it to her after meals.

Although Gany didn’t show her displeasure, the incident bothered her, eventually leading to their divorce.

Sometimes, speaking up is crucial. Accumulating unspoken concerns can strain a marriage and cause unexpected outbursts, damaging the relationship.

Being dishonest about feelings can exhaust men and create unnecessary complications. Understanding and utilizing male thinking can help women maintain lasting love.

Remember, marriage and love are a partnership. Whether dating or married, it’s essential to consider the male perspective, not just act based on personal preferences.