There was a popular saying last year that went like this: Love for a person starts with looks, loyalty to talent, and falls for character. Although ultimately character determines everything, it usually starts with looks.

This indicates that if your appearance doesn’t attract someone, they won’t get to know your talent or character.

Although character is crucial for a lasting relationship, looks play a significant role in whether you can create a story with someone.

Some women have great figures and have dated many people. Some may be very attractive but remain single because they are overweight.

Sometimes, our figure determines our romantic opportunities and can also reflect the kind of person we are.

Disciplined women have good figures. It’s rare to see people who overeat and don’t gain weight because most will. Some learn to control themselves and their diet, maintaining their figure even with slight weight gain.

Women with strong discipline set high standards for themselves, controlling their diet and often engaging in exercise to maintain a good figure.

I once attended an interview online last year in a conference room, and I could hear what others were saying during their interviews. One candidate was asked, “How do you view overweight people?” Their response was, “I don’t judge based on looks. I see overweight and skinny people the same way.”

Although many couldn’t understand, the candidate’s response indicated a lack of insight. The interviewer meant the overweight person lacked discipline, which led to their weight.

In any position, having discipline reduces the boss’s troubles. Employers seek disciplined employees to create value for the company.

A woman’s figure not only reflects her looks but also her discipline.

Women with good figures live elegantly. A refined woman is always pleasing to others, living with spirit and elegance.

If a woman has a good figure, it shows she lives elegantly. However, overly refined women may neglect certain responsibilities due to their focus on maintaining their figure.

A woman’s appearance reflects her aspirations. Some women have no aspirations and don’t mind gaining weight, while others focus on things other than appearance.

Some women pursue goals other than physical appearance, leading to weight gain. However, exceptions exist.

A woman with good figure is likely someone with aspirations who values appearance, maintaining a good figure.

A woman who pursues appearance excessively may face issues, such as undergoing surgery that could go wrong or developing eating disorders.

It’s fine to have aspirations, but don’t become too obsessed. A person can have preferences but shouldn’t be fixated.

A woman’s figure can offer insights into her character, but don’t judge a person’s worth based on looks.

Understanding a woman through her figure is sufficient. Sometimes, external aspects can reveal someone’s inner self.

In a book, there’s a line that says, “If your appearance doesn’t attract others, how can you expect them to understand your inner self.”

Understanding a woman can start with her figure, providing insights into her character.