“Water overflows when full, the moon wanes when full.”

When doing things, it’s crucial to maintain a balance, and the same goes for love.

Many people say:

“Women have zero IQ in love.”

Therefore, women never understand how to restrain their love in a relationship, but men do.

In most cases, it’s the man who pursues the woman at first, but later, the woman ends up waiting for the man alone.

Men’s love is passionate, while women’s love flows like water, continuous and steady.

In life, many women are loved by men for a while, but some are loved by men for a lifetime.

Sometimes women need to learn to restrain themselves to understand men better and receive long-lasting love from them.

Keeping a Distance Creates Attraction

“Women think they can keep a man with sincerity, but they never consider: sometimes, you need to create attraction to win a man’s heart.”

In a relationship, a woman should keep some distance. When a woman maintains a sense of mystery, men find her attractive and intriguing.

When a woman is mysterious and not easily understood, men see her as alluring and will continuously seek to explore her.

Many men fantasize about women being exceptional during the pursuit but lose interest when they realize the woman is too devoted, losing the novelty.

In many cases, the deeper someone understands another, the more likely they lose interest in them.

Extreme selflessness in treating others without restraining emotions leads to a miserable defeat for a woman.

Love is different from familial affection. Being caring towards family makes you seem sensible, but using the same approach with men is ineffective.

Besides sincerity, the key in love is to be attractive to the other person.

As a famous host once said:

“Love is about constantly improving oneself to attract the other. Mutual attraction leads to deep, lasting love.”

Don’t underestimate the power of attraction in love. If you can’t attract a man anymore, he will naturally drift away.

Being Favored Makes One Overconfident

There’s a lyric that goes:

“Those who are favored are overconfident, those who can’t get it are always in turmoil.”

When a woman fails to restrain her emotions and gives everything to a man, the man starts to believe she can’t live without him. At this point, he stops considering her feelings, acts selfishly, and may do things that hurt or upset her.

In a relationship, a woman must let the man know she loves him but also show that her love isn’t all-consuming.

Equality is crucial in a relationship. When a man feels a woman loves him but can leave at any moment, he starts to care for her and keeps her in his heart.

Many people only appreciate someone after losing them, especially men.

If a woman’s love makes a man overconfident, he stops caring about her feelings and becomes proud in his actions.

True love involves considering each other’s feelings, keeping the other person in mind, rather than recklessly doing things they can’t accept.

Don’t let a man think he has complete control over you; it puts the woman in a passive position.

Give Six Parts of Love to Others, Keep Four for Yourself

One must learn to love oneself first before seeking love, and this applies to relationships too.

Even if a woman loves a man deeply, she must understand that only by loving herself will the man love her.

When loving a man, a woman shouldn’t give everything to him. While giving to him, she must first give to herself because self-love precedes loving others.

Many people give their all to others but end up with nothing in return.

Give six parts of love to others, but keep four for yourself. Don’t give all your love to others.

Even if a woman loves someone deeply, she must learn to restrain herself and keep four parts of love for herself.

Apart from our parents’ love, we must learn to love ourselves more in this world.

Self-love isn’t selfishness, it’s self-preservation.

Women Should Have Their Principles and Bottom Line

Women should have their principles and bottom line. When a woman has these, men will respect her.

In life, some men, out of selfishness, make their women do things they don’t want to.

Often, women do things they dislike for the men they love. While men might appreciate it at the moment, they may later see the woman as having no boundaries.

Therefore, intelligent women leave themselves an exit strategy in life. If a man asks a woman to do something she dislikes, even if she loves him, she must learn to restrain herself.

“Always keep a clear mind.”

Even if a man asks a woman to do something important, breaking her principles and boundaries, she must keep a clear mind and not do things against her will out of love.

Only when a woman has principles and boundaries will she earn respect from others and herself.

Everything has two sides. If you go too far, it might backfire, and relationships are no exception.

In a relationship, a woman must learn to restrain herself. A woman with a clear mind in love, who knows how to restrain herself, will win a man’s heart and receive lasting love.