“Three things in the world cannot be hidden: poverty, coughing, and love.”

Indeed, when you truly fall in love with someone, your heart becomes entangled.

This entanglement can change a person’s character, influence their behavior, and make them gentle and patient.

In daily life, we see men and women deeply in love. Although everyone has their own way of expressing love, there are some commonalities.

Paying attention to everything about you

Some say:

“For someone who cares about you, your every move and word will attract their attention. They may not be interested in anyone else, but everything related to you cannot be ignored.”

Love is truly magical.

When in love, anything related to you will captivate their attention and stay on their mind.

I saw a video online.

A girl posted on her Moments one night:

“So hungry, craving barbecue.”

Less than ten minutes later, a boy called her.

He said he knew a great snack stand and asked if she wanted to go with him to try it.

Was it really just a coincidence?

Actually, the boy had just eaten and was about to attend to an important matter.

But as soon as he saw the girl’s Moments, he called her immediately.

In “The Little Prince,” it says:

“The time you spent on your rose makes your rose so important.”

Love or not, it can be understood from the level of attention he gives you.

If he doesn’t truly love you, he won’t waste his precious energy on you, let alone care so much about you.

On the contrary, when someone pays attention to everything about you, it only means that their whole heart is filled with you.

Frequently initiating contact with you

In “Constellation Stories,” it says:

“I’m someone who is afraid to initiate contact. If I reach out to you, it’s because you are important to me.”

A friend of mine, John, used to be extremely shy.

Before meeting his current girlfriend, he would blush even just talking to a girl, let alone initiating a conversation.

But after meeting his current girlfriend, he completely changed.

He would say good morning when waking up, good night before sleeping, exchange pleasantries during meals, and even reply to messages while waiting at a traffic light.

Once, I teased him, “The shy facade is completely gone, looks like you’re truly smitten.”

Instead of refuting, he vigorously nodded in agreement.

In relationships, being proactive is not innate, and no one would want to initiate contact unless the person is very important to them.

After all, initiating has the risk of rejection and disappointment.

But when he throws away all reserve, all pride, all ego, just for you.

The only reason is that he’s falling for you.

Because he loves you so much, he’s unafraid of ridicule or losing face, and embraces it wholeheartedly.

Inviting you for various reasons

Some say:

“I flip a coin. Heads, I’ll come to see you. Tails, I won’t. Before the coin lands, I already know the answer.”

Perhaps rationally, your inner self may struggle, telling you to maintain some poise, as being too eager might decrease your value.

But love has never been controllable, and the heart has never been controllable.

Once in love, in the urgent longing, even if it means crossing mountains and seas, he will want to meet you.

As Mr. Shi Tiesheng once said:

“It’s getting late, but I don’t want to leave you for even a moment. I don’t want to leave you for even a moment, but it’s late.”

In the TV series “Diamond Lover,” Gao Wen, a popular star, falls for gynecologist Lei Yiming.

In the series, there’s a scene where Gao Wen uses various methods to trick Lei Yiming into meeting her.

Once, she even removed all the light bulbs at home and called Lei Yiming, saying the lights were broken and asking him to come and fix them.

Perhaps this is the most genuine form of loving someone. As long as they can see you, any trouble will turn into happiness the moment they see you.

I really like this quote:

“I want to meet you, you pick the place. Forest, desert, the starry sky at the end of the world. Grassland, seaside, the misty alley in the early morning. Just not in dreams.”

In this world, interaction between the opposite sex always comes with a sense of boundaries. No one would invite the opposite sex without reason.

However, if someone frequently invites you to meet, it only means that they truly miss you and can only relieve their longing by seeing you.

Hugo said:

“The greatest happiness in life is to be convinced that someone loves you.”

The greatest happiness in life is not because of youthfulness and excitement, but because of being loved and shining.

So, if you encounter someone who treats you in these three ways, you must cherish them. After all, it’s really not easy to encounter someone who truly loves you, and missing out might mean missing out for good!